Who is My Best Friend?: Formspring.me Question

from Formspring.me:

who is your best friend?

Hmmm….that’s a toughie. I’ve been blessed to have a handful of wonderful, dear friends scattered the world over – London, L.A., Tokyo, Brussels, Honolulu, New York, D.C…but I have not lived in the same town as any of them for a couple years now. I also have 2 friends whom I count my closest (and oldest, all the way going back to high school) – we’ve shared so many highs and lows, 15 years…and it’s been a lot. One girl and one guy, the best of both worlds. I don’t know where I would be without either of them.:-)

Thank you for your question!
xoxo
Carly

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The Winner of the Cold Plasma Perricone Giveaway

This was most certainly a toughie.  Out of 53 comments, there were some really great ones.  But who to choose?  Instead of doing it randomly and running the results thru Random.org, I decided to hand-pick someone out of all the entries, leaving the cryptic “Best answer as to why you need this product” as the entry guidelines.  But what constitutes “best???”

Many of you wanted to win it in order to present it to your mothers or other loved ones, like chun who wrote “I would love to give Cold Plasma as a gift to my mom…The truth is she wasn’t blessed with the best skin and is sensitive to most sunblocks, which has not resulted in graceful aging. Being in her 60s I feel like she has given up on taking care of herself.”

There were also some commenters who mentioned they were in relationships with younger men and thus need all the help they can get when it comes to battling the 10 signs of aging, like Angelique who wrote “It fights TEN SIGNS OF AGING!!! I’m 41, my boyfriend is 26…I need all the ammo I can get!!!”

Others mentioned difficult work/home lives, like trashywriter who wrote about how her routine daily is dropping off her twins at school, checking on her mother who had lost a lot of her independence from an open-heart surgery, and then taking care of a daughter who has Asperger’s.

Still others mentioned how you love Dr. Perrricone’s products but find them so pricey it’s difficult to rationalize the splurge on something like this.  Others mentioned hitting a milestone age, or being told by other people that they look “old.”


So who gets it?  I wish I could choose everyone who shared their skin woes so honestly (and I did read and consider every single entry)…but I chose

Jennifer

who wrote “At 55 years old I have all ’10 signs of aging: wrinkles, enlarged pores, dryness, discoloration, redness, uneven skin tone, impurities, loss of firmness, loss of smoothness and loss of radiance.’ Oh, to have my skin to look healthy again!! Younger again!!! And, maybe, my 19 year old will stop telling me how old I look! That one’s a real esteem killer!”

Well, congratulations Jennifer!  I’ll be contacting you to get your shipping info so that the Perricone people can get your jar of Cold Plasma out on the way to you.


Thank you to all who entered, and there will be more giveaways in the future…including some loot from New York Fashion Week, so stay tuned!
xoxox
Carly

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First Day of Spring Outfit & Studded Cardigan DIY

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*Forever21 coat (similar here)
*Forever21 DIY-studded cardigan
*Target striped 3/4-length sleeve shirt (similar here)
*silver horseshoe-stamped necklace I won from Lucky Magazine
*Aldo padlock bag (similar here, in pink)
*Forever21 rhinestone two-finger ring (similar here)
*Forever21 gold chain ring (similar here)
*H&M zipper skirt
*self-made leggings
*unknown wedge-heel booties (something kinda similar here)

So I’m sure you’re all wondering why I’ve been MIA for the last couple days, and what on earth I’ve been doing.  In the meantime…

Spring has finally arrived here in Portland, and the weather has been beautiful.

It’s been time to break out the ol’ lawnmower…

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Run for your life!

Find leprechaun gold on St. Patrick’s Day…

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Walk the dog…

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I refuse to be walked.  Oh, and may the Force be with you.

And watch the plum blossoms fall, like light pink snow, on the front lawn.

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I, meanwhile, have been sick.

We got off the plane 2 Mondays ago, and I felt a tickle in my throat.  “I’m just dehydrated,” I thought…

And guzzled tons of water Tuesday, but felt increasingly worse.  “I’m just jetlagged,” I thought, and endeavored to catch up on tons of sleep, guzzled more water…

But by Thursday it was evident I had a head cold.  I sprung a 101-degree fever, had a runny nose, and unbelievable body aches and pains (and it wasn’t from dragging all our luggage around!)

By Sunday last week it felt like the cold was on its way out, so Monday morning I met up with a friend I hadn’t seen in awhile, and we hung out and talked for about 3 hours, me sucking on Halls and downing honeyed green tea the whole time.

I felt an annoying tickle in my throat again, but still had sinus pressure and a runny nose from the cold that was on its way out.  So I drank TONS of water, tea, and guzzled probably half a honeybear of honey.

Last Tuesday came, and I had no voice.

No voice whatsoever.

I could only speak in a raspy whisper, and in a squeak here and there.  At some points I couldn’t even whisper at all – my mouth was forming the words, but it was like there was no sound passing my lips.
I haven’t had laryngitis this bad in at least 15 years, so it was a shock to say the least.

I read on the Internet (that most reliable source of information) that the best cure for laryngitis is to let the virus run its course, get plenty of rest, and not use your voice.  Easier said than done when you have a 4-year-old.;-)  And salt gargles, which I’ve been doing.

So, since my blogging routine is usually wait for Lil Tot to fall asleep around 8:30 PM, then sneak out of bed so as not to wake him, head for my computer, and blog for the next 4 hours, this was totally ruined by the get plenty of rest suggestion, and I’ve been sleeping 10-12 hours per day (!) since Tuesday in a desperate attempt to get my voice back.

Friday I finally got a trim, since I’m growing my hair out it’s kind of in that shapeless, can’t-do-anything-with-it stage.

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It really did feel like the First Day of Spring, with the warm weather, and the sunshine.  So I broke out my fave blue coat, the one for some reason complete strangers like to complement me on when I wear it.

It has a lovely, striped satin lining.  To think it was only $39 on sale at F21!  
(no longer available, tho you can get something at Alloy where I’ve linked above.)

So these are my showing-off-my-new-hair-and-my-newfound-finally-not-just-a-whisper-voice (more like heavy-smoker, husky-phone-sex-old-lady-voice) photos.

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Useful padlock bag from Aldo that was around $40. Waaay better than a Paddington!
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I also wanted to share my studded cardi that I made a little while ago.  A great way to dress up a regular black boyfriend lightweight cardigan, silver studs around the edge elevate it from casual to something much, much better.  (And these cardigans been all over Vivi magazine for the past couple months if you happen to have caught a glimpse of them!)  Interestingly enough, I couldn’t find any for sale in the U.S. and a reasonable price.  (And Forever21 hasn’t done a knockoff, something I’m a little surprised at still. Doing a quick search for a studded cardi at ShopStyle will produce a couple similar ones…but at a couple hundred dollars each.  I mean, come on.)

So a quick little DIY for ya:
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How To Make a Studded Cardigan
You Need:
*boyfriend cardigan (like this one from Target)
*1 (gross) packet of 7mm Square Hotfix Nailheads (silver) from i-kandi.com

*Hotfix Applicator tool
*piece of scrap cardboard

Why heatset studs instead of pronged?  Because they are far, far lighter…and easier to set on a lightweight knit such as this.

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Place the cardboard directly underneath the front of your sweater.  (You may have to shift the sweater placement as you affix studs around the neckline.)  I just placed them about 1.5″ apart along the front edges of the cardigan, and along the top edges of the pockets.  (You use the large flat attachment for the applicator tool, press down lightly onto the nailhead you have already placed on your sweater, and hold for about 15 seconds.  Repeat for each stud, all the way around the neckline, and on the top of the pockets.)  I love the finished effect!

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Pretty simple, eh?  (And yes, my cardboard is from an IKEA box.  I do love IKEA.;-)
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I didn’t realize until after I’d received my cardigan in the mail that the particular one I’d ordered had a detachable scarf with the cardigan’s pockets on it.  (Don’t ask why I didn’t realize this; I’m an idiot.)  I sewed the scarf down onto the cardigan and added the studs; now faced with the problem of the cardigan no longer being able to button and the back of the neck rolling absurdly because of the extra material from the scarf…surgery on this cardigan needs to be attempted soon.  I just haven’t bothered with it just yet.

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Here you can see the little scarf-piece I haven’t dealt with yet.
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I also can’t believe I found these boots last week at the Buffalo Exchange for $15.  I’ve concluded that the person who sold them to the Buffalo Exchange must have been legally insane…because you’d have to be ker-azyto willingly give up this cute little pair.  I was actually looking for a pair to DIY my own lace-up Ann Demuelemeesters…and I found these instead. They are adorable, right down to the little fold-over at the top, and surprisingly comfortable.  The only clue to their origin is the stamping in the footbed…which could read “F21” or “F24” depending on how you look at them.  Does anyone recognize them from a Forever21?

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Friday I went to bed praying that I would not sound like a 3-packs-a-day-smoker for this networking event I was aching to go to on Saturday, since I am in the market for a full-time J-O-B and refuse to work at Burger King.  (apologies all who work at Burger King.)

So I am currently massively behind on everything from housework to going through my mail to answering email (only 53 new messages this morning, thank god) to posting here to formspringing.  Sorry, sorry, sorry.

Will get to everything slowly as my voice finally seems to be coming back, just as slowly, unfortunately…and now Lil Tot has now caught whatever I had.

Plus…okay, another reason I’ve been reticent to take/post outfit photos…or really do anything…is that I’ve gained 7 pounds while in Hawaii.

Can you see it in my face?  (I put on weight in my face first, #$%@ing genetics.)

I honestly don’t know how it happened.  I thought I was being careful, but obviously too much time spent with my computer while others were frolicking on the beach, too many giving in to decadent food and dinners and full buffet breakfasts….ugh.  I’m pretty annoyed with myself since I usually only swing about 3 pounds above my usual set-point throughout the given month…but this…puts me right back where I was last year, before beginning the hell that was P90X.

Funny how a slightly higher number on the scale can totally defeat your willpower to do anything, isn’t it?  Nevertheless, I am glad Spring is here! (even tho my garden obviously hasn’t realized it yet LOL)

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Anyway, thank you all so much for commenting during my lapse, and asking questions and giving me feedback…as well as entering my Cold Plasma Giveaway…which I’ll be announcing the winner to tomorrow!

You guys are the best.:-)
xoxoxo
Carly

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V Magazine – Push It Real Good

I’m sure you guys have already seen this already…but I just love this!  I am such a Child of the 80’s.LOL

Photographer: Josh Olins

Styling: Clare Richardson


Models: Lily Donaldson and Liya Kebede

In the March issue of V MAGAZINE (#64), we are treated to this colorful, graphic, 80’s-inspired style spread with two of fashion’s most famous faces.

From the press release:

Inspired by the famed hip-hop girl group Salt-n-Pepa, this 10-page fashion spread showcases the style that helped propel the female act to fame in the 80’s and 90’s.

No rules, no limits. Grandmistresses of flash Liya and Lily are taking cues from rap’s female greats for an explosion of prints, platforms, sequins, and crimped hair. Yo. Can you handle it?

So colorful. So nuts.  And brimming with ideas for DIY – albeit requiring a little toning down.;-)  Those yellow platform sneaks are reDUNKulous.

How do you guys respond to this?  Is it bringing out the 80’s gal in you?
xoxox
Carly

 

 

 

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Spring Break Looks for Less from Buckle

Free People Wedding Tank Top $88 / h.i.p. Rose Top $26 / BKE Stella Stretch Jean $74 / BKE Sole Mercury Shoe $36/ Chinese Laundry Snake Purse $56.95 / BKE Ombre Sunglasses $12 / BKE Bead Necklace $12 / BKE Rainbow Bangle Bracelet $12 / BLE Charm Hoop Earring $14

Miss Me Wing Stretch Crop Jean $88 / Daytrip Bias Striped Vest $25 / Daytrip Tie Dye Sublimated Tank Top $22 / Billabong Overboard Tank Top $24 / Billabong Morgan Tie Swimwear Top $42/ Billagong Kayla Tie Swimwear Bottom $38 / Billabong Coco Flip $18 / Fossil Boyfriend Twist Watch $95 / BKE Ombre Sunglasses $12 / BKE Republique Coin Necklace $12 / BKE Black Jewel Bracelet $12
Daytrip Dolman Sleeve Sweatshirt $29.50 / Daytrip Bright Splatter Top $25 / Silver Frances Stretch Jean $82 / Sanuk Lime Light Loafer $52 / Chocolate Crescent Purse $56.95 / BKE Floral Disc Necklace $16 / BKE Black Rhinestone Leather Bracelet $16 / Lucky Brand Charm Bracelet $25.46 / BKE Leaves Earring $9.38 / Fossil Jeweled Bling Ring $40
OBEY Cash Chaos T-Shirt $29.50 / BKE Reese Stretch Cropped Jean $66 / Not Rated Kitty Kat Sandal $55 / Depeche Mode Studded Zebra Wallet $16.50 / BKE Swirl Print Sunglasses $14 / Lucky Brand Voyage Necklace $35 / BKE Charm Hoop Earring $14 / Fossil Paisley Gold Watch $115 / BKE Rainbow Bangle Bracelet $12 /  Daytrip Braided Waist Top

Have you the Luck of the Stylish?  (click on title of each photo array above to be linked to full product pages)

xoxox
Carly

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H & M in New York

I also managed to stop by H & M while in New York City.  We don’t have one in Portland (but one is apparently coming this summer!  Yay! …Unless you’re one of those people who are against the increasing corporatization and mass-marketed clothing available in a town known for indie fashion…in that case…Nay!)

But I still found many lovely pieces at New York’s H&M!  Check it out below:

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I would have bought this beautiful butterfly skirt had they had any more of it in my size.

Love this! Crisp white shirt – detailed like a chef’s uniform.

Gingham done incredibly chic.

Hello Kitty makes everything better!

A haunting Laura Laine illustration on a tanktop.

Tiny pearls create a pretty design on a top.

I soooo regret not getting this skirt. If someone’s near an H&M and would like to get it for me in a size M (6) & send it to me, I’ll pay you for it!

GORGEOUS skirt. I can’t believe the work went into this…and that it’s at H&M for an affordable price.

I like the way the cutwork trim is used around the neck and sleeves.

Ooh- this is just brimming with ideas to DIY!

xoxox
Carly

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Chic Steals Featured On…

Sort of similar in layout to BleachBlack or The CobraSnake photography journal…a lovely and inspiring collection of images…  The writer is a photographer with her own photography site coming soon.

Fellow Oregonian Amanda Grisham writes the above blog…she has great affordable picks and styling tips and did a very nice write-up of a couple of remakes I’ve done using men’s shirts entitled “D.I.Y. with Clothes From Your G.U.Y.”  (Super-cute title BTW!)  She also is studying Apparel Design and Management, and so her blog is chock-full of insider tips and info about trends and tradeshows. (Like candy for someone like me!)

Thank you ladies for featuring my tutorials!  I appreciate the links – and readers, definitely check out their blogs if you get a chance!

xoxox
Carly

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Luca Luca Fall/Winter 2010 Collection & Interview with Raul Melgoza

From Sunday, February 14 – Luca Luca showcased their Fall/Winter 2010 Collection.

My seating assignment, the Run of Show, and my Press Pass to the Tents.

From the press release: “Melgoza’s design aesthetic is rooted in classicism, yet his vision incorporates the ever-changing role of women in society.  His design philosophy is to transcend seasons and trends to accomplish clothing that can be worn for a lifetime.  The brand has expanded the distributon of its collection from freestanding boutiques in major US cities to international markets such as Europe, Russia, and the Middle East.”

The makeup look for the show.

A shot of the makeup table.

A favorite of celebrities and socialites alike, Luca Luca was founded in 1992 by Luca Orlandi.  (Tinsley Mortimer -looking rail-thin – was in attendance, as well as former American Idol finalist Constantine Maroulis, and a member of the Real Housewives of NYC who I loathe so intensely I refuse to type her name and give her any more press.)

Plus this lady whose name totally escapes me right now…can anyone help me out?

“Melgoza’s new collection is inspired by the sculpture and contour of architecture and embodies the juxtaposition of polar opposites.  With the collection, he harmonoiusly combines opposing elements – masculine and feminine, structure and fluidity, soft and corase, dense and sheer, matte and shiny.”

With jewelry by Dannijo (interview coming up soon!, it was destined to be quite a show of sophisticated luxe.  And it truly did not disappoint…see below:

Watch the video of the show here:

I also had the wonderful opportunity to interview Creative Director Raul Melgoza, appointed in 2008 by founder Luca Orlandi.  Originally from Italy but raised in L.A., Melgoza is a Parsons graduate, and joined the company in 2005.  He cites Tim Gunn as a mentor, says he is in love with the seasons (that’s why he loves New York); and was inspired by beautiful buildings, sculpture, and the architecture of Frank Gehry in the creation of this collection.  Utilizing clean lines that focus the eye on the silhouette, Melgoza combined fabrics in a palette of steel blue, midnight, dusty rose, and metalic-infused fabrics of antique silver, bronze, and charcoal.silver, liquid gold with silver undertones to create chic, wearable pieces.

Listen to the interview below:

Transcription of the interview:
Carly J. Cais: Did you always know you wanted to be a designer?
Raul Melgoza: Actually, you know, I did not…it’s funny because  I was always inspired and drawn to things that were beautiful, but it wasn’t necessarily just clothing it was music, it was homes, travel – I had an innate sensibility for what was amazing; what was artistic…so having said that I never grew up drawing; nobody in my family sewed.  So I actually got an undergraduate degree in finance and it was during those years that having a marketing course really opened my eyes to the possibility of merging commerce and art, so that was when i decided I’m attending parsons, so I moved from L.A. and Parsons was really my first experience with any kind of schooling in the arts.

CJC: How old were you at the time?
RM: I was twenty-five.  I had done my undergrad, I had actually worked a couple years in the Treasury Department, totally a corporate career.  It has helped me a lot as a Creative Director to understand that it has to be more than just a 10-minute show that people watch, it has to have a sell-through if I want to have a job.

CJC: Have you adjusted your strategies at all given the recent economic difficulties?
RM: We’re working obviously on being a little more sensitive, if your going to bead something then perhaps not get so crazy with very elaborate construction because at the end of the day it’s going to be a ten-thousand, fifteen-thousand-dollar piece, and yes it’s beautiful, but we also want to have a few more so that people see it.  So if you’re creating things that are unattainable, you’re almost defeating your objective: which is to be out there and be part of the wardrobe of as many people as you can.


CJC: Makes sense.  But in lieu of that, are there any specific embellishments or deisgn elements or fabrics that you really loved working with and want to talk about?
RM: Oh yeah, in this collection you’ll see some amazing, amazing fabrics.  There’s a lot of wools and tweeds that have a lacquered finish to give it a modern, it doesn’t look like an older woman…everything has a bit of a gloss, there’s lacquered wools, there’s modern cuts on fur, and an overall shorter, flirtier silhouette.


CJC: So what do you want Luca Luca to embody or encompass in one phrase?
RM: I think Luca Luca shoold stand for timeless, modern clothes.

An incredibly well-spoken and intelligent man – and I loved the shiny sheaths – ESPECIALLY the slate blue -part-pleated dress, which is calling my name.:-)

What do all of you think of the collection?
xoxox
Carly

All runway photos taken from the front: Getty Images.

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