Mar 14, 2011 | Fashion

care packets of new socks to send to the survivors in temporary shelters
As you all probably are aware, on Friday, March 11, Japan suffered a devastating 9.0-magnitude earthquake off the northeast coast, that brought an enormous tsunami (tidal wave) that washed inland, destroying entire towns and the northeastern coastal areas. This earthquake was an event that happens only once every 1,000 years, and was so strong it shifted the main island of Japan by 2.4 meters and tilted the Earth’s axis by 25 cm so that the days are now incrementally shorter. (!!)
The official death toll in Japan is currently in the thousands, though it is estimated that more than 10,000 people were killed, and many more are currently still at risk with no power, water, or food. More than 430,000 people are currently in temporary shelters, and 25,000+ are still stranded due to high water and debris. Roads, hospitals, and schools were destroyed, as well as an entire airport. Currently in some shelters, there is no power, no heat, and the people there are rationed to one riceball per day.
Since Friday we have been watching the television (actually 3 different internet feeds, simultaneously) with growing horror as in my husband’s home country there is now also the possibility of meltdowns in three or more of Japan’s nuclear reactors, stores and supermarkets are bare of food and provisions, lines for gasoline are four and five hours long, and bodies are washing ashore by the thousands. Though none of the family or friends we know personally were in the areas directly affected by the tsunami and they are all safe, many are experiencing blackouts, no trains running, little food availability, and structural damage to their homes.
There are hundreds of thousands more people who were far less fortunate.
Feeling paralyzed and helpless by a disaster of this magnitude, we wanted to do something to ease the suffering.
~~~To Donate Money~~~
Paypal.com allows you to make an immediate donation of $25, waiving any transaction fees for donations to such organizations as Save the Children, the American Red Cross, Global Giving, and Hands On Network. Alternatively, you can click on the organizations linked above to go directly to their respective websites and dinate there.
Mercy Corps is also another excellent organization that works for disaster relief and is accepting financial donations.
Edit 3/15: Also, you can text your donation from your phone, and text fees will be waived for post-paid Sprint customers:
• Texting REDCROSS to “90999” to donate $10 on behalf of the American Red Cross;
• Texting TSUNAMI to “50555” to donate $10 on behalf of Convoy of Hope;
• Texting WAVE to “50555” to donate $10 on behalf of the World Relief Corp. of National Association of Evangelicals; and
• Texting JAPAN or QUAKE to 80888 to donate $10 on behalf of The Salvation Army.
The same goes for Verizon Wireless customers texting the above numbers, as well as to the following, to make a $10 donation:
• ADRA Relief, by texting SUPPORT to 85944;
• American Red Cross Relief, by texting REDCROSS to 90999;
• GlobalGiving, by texting JAPAN to 50555;
• International Medical Corps, by texting MED to 80888;
• Mercy Corps, by texting MERCY to 25383;
• Save the Children Federation, by texting JAPAN or TSUNAMI to 20222; and
• World Vision, by texting 4JAPAN or 4TSUNAMI to 20222.
T-Mobile also is not charging texting fees to these charities.
~~~To Donate Something Personal~~~
Socks for Japan is a newly-formed organization based in the city of Sano, which is close enough to the devastation that they can physically go to the distressed areas, but far enough away that the post is still arriving. They are asking for new, clean socks – one pair, or more if you can – grouped into envelopes by size and type for quick distribution. You can also enclose a care letter if you like, and they will translate the letters into Japanese, and hand the packet personally to the people currently housed in the temporary shelters. Socks are also in desperate need during times of crises, the sizes are universal, they are small and light and easy to ship, and can be treasured afterwards by survivors as a sign that someone faraway cared. Please click on the link above to find out more about it. (I’ve added the banner to the top of my site as well.)
I’ve already donated some money to Save the Children and the Red Cross, and I am now putting together 38 packets of new socks and care letters to send to Socks for Japan. They are asking for new socks only at this time.
Please, if you can, spare some money (even just $25!) for a donation, and if you’d like to do something more, please find some nice socks to send to someone who has lost everything in the world.
If you can’t donate money or items, please spread the word so that the people in desperate need can receive assistance.
Now is certainly the time to remember how lucky we all are, and, if possible, do a little more for people desperately in need.
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We hope none of you have had friends or relatives affected by these events. Hold your loved ones close and stay safe!
I will resume fashion/DIY posting tomorrow.
xoxox
Carly
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Mar 7, 2011 | Fashion
I’ve been hemming and hawing about DIY’ing these lovely ruffled Christian Louboutins for awhile. It would be so simple to curl and fold up a piece of leather, creating those frills, and stitch the bottom onto a “pad” that you could tie on or clip on to the front of your sandals..
Well, now there’s no need to since Newport-News has come out with their version. Besides the fact that the NNI version is faux leather and they do not have a top strap, the frilly part certainly looks a lot cheaper than the original since (likely in order to save on production costs) they’ve used a double-layer of vinyl simply glued together.


Whereas the Loubs use a double layer of leather, edges folded in and topstitched. It’s a minuscule little detail (along with the strong shine of the faux leather) that is a dead giveaway that these are fakies.
However, once there’s a pretty good replica of a designer item put out there by some mass-market brand, I lose interest in DIY’ing it.
Materials for the ruffle + time trying to find the materials + time executing it + possible mishaps/mistakes with working with thin leather and topstitching it = $$$$
(close enough to $59 that bothering with the DIY seems like a waste. But it certainly could be done should you want to.)
And if you wanted to buy these shoes from Newport-News or Spiegel (sadly, only camel or black is available, not the lovely orangey coral color)…
What do we think? Chic…or just CHEAP?
xoxox
Carly
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Mar 3, 2011 | Fashion
Double Cross Itty Bitty Single Earring, Sideways Cross Connection Choker, Large Cross Pendant, Pink Ombre White Faux Fur Tail Bag Charm: handmade by me
Wide-neck Sweatshirt and Zipper-detail mini-skirt: H&M
Faux aqua druzy ring: Target
Double pocket flap bag: Marni
Sheer maxi-skirt: piece of fabric wrapped around my waist
Reversible tights: Hue
Charcoal Boots: limited-edition Doc Martens
I’ve been coveting a long, sheer maxi-skirt ever since I saw the Adriana Chiffon Maxi Skirt on NastyGal’s website awhile back. Breezy, sheer, and dreamy, it keeps the legs under cover even when wearing a short skirt – modest, but kind of understated sexy in a way. I figured I’d just make my own at some point, and then kept putting it off, and putting it off…And then uber-DIY goddess Geneva from A Pair and a Spare DIY’d her own! Inspired, I ran to the fabric store and picked up 2 yards of cheap poly chiffon mesh. But then my serger lost its battle with the 11 children’s chicken costumes (hey, alliteration!) I made for my son’s school play, and I had to take it to get fixed ($160, not counting any parts they may have to replace). So while it’s in the shop, I can’t make any maxi-skirt, since I’m too lazy to bother with French seams and chiffon needs to be properly edged or else the edges will unravel on you.
Today it was a typical Oregon day: cold, clammy, and rainy in the morning, turning to dazzling sunshine around noon – 2 PM, then raining and hailing around 3 – 4 PM. Oh, Oregon! March should be renamed Month of Hail.>:-( In any case, I was cold this morning, so just grabbed my uncut chiffon fabric and wrapped it around my waist, thereby creating a makeshift sheer maxiskirt. It stayed on for most of the day, added a surprising amount of warmth, but shocked Lil Tot as I sat on the floor with him in the afternoon playing Crash Bandicoot racing and the fabric came untucked; he shouted “Mama! Your dress ripped!” So adds another childhood trauma, I supposed. Mother of the Disintegrating Dress.
I love how it shows sheer while walking!
But I digress. I’ve been working on adding some new jewelry pieces to my Etsy store; for example this double itty bitty cross chain earring and sideways cross connection choker.
If I can source any more of these large matte silver crosses (these are so popular for my rings that as soon as I stock them in the store they usually sell out), I’ll make some more long ball-chain necklaces like the one I’m wearing if people like it. All of these coming soon! And I felt like tacking on my pink ombre fur tail (still available for purchase here) to the whole ensemble to break up all the grey, black, and silver.
Completely on the non-affordable end of the accessories specturm would be this Marni bag. I own 4 luxury, high-end bags: a Louis Vuitton rainbow monogram pochette, an Etro wallet, a See by Chloe duffel bag, and now this Marni…all of them gifts, given to me by either my mother-in-law, my grandmother-in-law, or a family friend of theirs. I was so surprised when my mother-in-law went shopping at Nordstrom’s while she was visiting last month – and came back with TWO Marni bags, exactly alike, one in tan (for herself), and one a Valentine’s Day gift for me. She had seen how I was prepping my son’s Valentine’s cards and candy to take to his class at school, and how I had made a cheesecake for my husband and given him a box of designer chocolates, so she misconstrued that Valentine’s Day in the U.S. was some HUGE holiday where gifts MUST be given, and felt bad she didn’t have a gift for me…so she bought one. I was beyond words. It was so incredibly generous of her…a little comical, I suppose, but I didn’t want to rudely correct her and say the Valentine’s Day was not exactly the major gift-giving holiday (well, between in-laws) that she thought it was…I felt so bad that she had felt compelled to spend that much money on me. (Or maybe she just wanted us both to match…?) We all know that I would NEVER spend that much money on a luxury item no matter what…since I’m all about emulating the look and saving the cash!! Right??! Thus when someone gifts me something like this it’s hard for me to accept it as-is, especially when I think of how that money could have gone to better use for my in-laws over a longer period of time, rather than being blown in one chunk on a high-priced impulse purchase (or even bought for half the amount spent by shopping on Gilt.com or somewhere!!). In any case, my mother-in-law did something very nice and selfless for me, and I was very grateful and now have a beautiful Marni bag that I am afraid to use since I’m petrified of destroying it…or spilling juice or animal cracker crumbs onto it…this mindset is very much ingrained in me…
A cheapskate to the bitter end – even in the face of Marni!!;-)

How about all of you? What would you do – or how do you feel when somebody gifts you something extremely expensive and a little outside of your own fashion ethics?
xoxox
Carly
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Feb 28, 2011 | Fashion
How many of you watched the Academy Awards last night? Sadly, I missed it, but was able to catch up this morning on all the coverage courtesy of the vastness that is the Internet. Now, DIY is not usually an option when it comes to glamourous, $10,000+ formal gowns and diamond jewelry…but finding similar pieces at an affordable pricepoint definitely is. Here are some get-the-look-for-less jewelry pieces, straight off the Red Carpet:
Blingy Cocktail Rings

Bold Peridot ring ($55); Square champagne cocktail ring ($50); Elephant statement ring ($45)
Sparkly Wrist-Adornment

Rhinestone stretch bracelet ($48); Crystal stone bracelet with magnetic closure ($32); Filigree hinged cuff ($38)
Lovely Necklaces

Crystal rock necklace ($58); Enameled CZ Handbag Pendant ($28)
Other Finishing Touches
Luminosity chandelier earrings ($34); Crystal brooches ($24 each)
Did any of you have an Oscars viewing party? I need to find me some local fashion-savvy girlfriends to do just that!;-)
xoxox
Carly
Original photos courtesy of Ann Magnin, Inc. Photo arrays by me.
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Feb 23, 2011 | Fashion
Hammered Twisted Silver Hoop Earrings: Target
Faux leather jacket: Kitson (a recent HauteLook purchase)
Bow Bag: H&M
Manmade Goldstone Rock Candy Ring: my Etsy shop
Motorcycle Boots: Zara
I’ve been into maxidresses lately. Perhaps it’s because my jeans aren’t fitting very well…? I’ve been lax lately and stuck behind the computer, sitting, for hours at a time, so things are definitely expanding. And maxidresses are way more forgiving. Ah well – I’ll jump back on the exercise bandwagon again soon!
I couldn’t resist these glasses when I saw them at Forever 21. So nerdy! Hub says they are completely unflattering on me and I look like I’m from the 80’s. Well…I AM! (Actually I’m from the 70’s if we must split hairs, but I only can remember the 80’s.) Manrepeller #1: Thick-framed round nerd glasses!!
I finally made it out to Portland’s H&M (what can I say – I never hang around downtown much) – and this orangey-red bag was calling my name.
I thought it was a lot like this lipstick I found at Sephora – I was looking for a bright red with orange undertones…and this one (the color’s called “It Girl” – R06) was perfect! It looks more red indoors, but appears very orangey-red in natural light. Manrepeller #2: Orange lips!

I was so excited the other day when I realized my hair was finally long enough to put into a topknot!! It seems I’ve been growing it out forever, and now it’s badly in need of a trim and a style. So I’ve taken to wearing it back or in a ponytail…but now a topknot is within the realm of possibility! Manrepeller #3: Topknots. [with apologies to the iconic, the original ManRepeller for all the references.] Yeehaw!
We’re supposed to get snow tomorrow…I have my fingers crossed that school will be cancelled so I can sit at home all day and work on all the projects that are piling up quickly…Can you believe it will be March in a week?? Egads!

I also have to get my serger fixed as all the chicken costumes I made for Lil Tot’s school play screwed up the machine and now the timing’s off. Well, it hasn’t been serviced since 1995 so I guess it’s about time…But that means no sewing DIY’s for a little while…*phooey*
Hope everyone’s having a great week so far! Does anyone have any cool plans for the last week of February?
xoxox
Carly
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Feb 10, 2011 | Fashion

Hooded cargo vest: (bought at STEPS boutique in NYC)
LS black top, Rhinestone armor ring, Striped maxi-dress: Forever 21
(dress no longer available but this is the long-sleeved version of it)
Scroll ring: I forget
Vampire teeth ring: Icing by Claire’s
Ombre scarf: unknown (thrifted at Goodwill)
G-buckle velour belt: Guess (from like a million years ago)
Motorcycle boots: Zara
Wedding rings: Cartier platinum band + Tiffany’s solitaire diamond band

It’s still technically winter here in Oregon, which means layers and scarves…but I thought to wear a recent thrift store find in a way I normally wouldn’t wear a scarf. It’s like another layer: a cute topper for an outfit…but it technically isn’t a top. I love me those contradictions!
Just call me Baby G.
I paired the ombre scarf over a lightweight cargo vest I haven’t had the opportunity to wear in awhile, over a summerweight maxidress and long-sleeved tee. The whole ensemble was surprisingly warm and made me want to take off a layer or three while stuck in the computer classroom with 30 other people + 50 iMacs.
Then I got a little crazy with Photoshop. Man, my bonsai needs trimming! (Which is certainly NOT a euphemism in any way.)
Bwahahaha! I do love me my Photoshop, too.
I hope everyone’s having a great week!
I have a 3 ft-square hole in my kitchen floor going all the way down to the basement/crawlspace where a pipe burst last week, and my in-laws from Japan arrive tomorrow. Check that: I hope everyone’s having a better week than me!
Try a scarf as a topper anytime you want to break up the routine!;-)
xoxox
Carly
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