Aug 17, 2010 | Beauty, From You, Life
from formspring.me:
How do you keep yourself looking so good, young and skinny? 🙂
Awww, thank you! You’re so very sweet:-)
It’s probably a combination of genes and habits (and maybe Photoshop??? hehe;-).
On the beach in Hawaii. I don’t know how I survived living there for 4 years without turning into a lobster.
I’ve used the highest SPF I possibly can (that’s still affordable) since I was 16 when I realized I am just physically unable to tan. I’ve been using SPF 110 for the last year or so – I always buy the Neutrogena brand that has Helioplex in it
, and I put it on after my moisturizer, every single day, rain or shine, whether I’m going in or staying out, on my face, neck (front & back), chest (if exposed), backs of the hands, and arms (if exposed). When I go to the beach, I stay hidden under a huge umbrella, with a huge hat, huge sunglasses (yes, HUGE is the word of the day), and often drape my clothing over my head to cover myself. I always wear a long t-shirt when I swim outside (though I recently purchased a long-sleeved rashguard, so now I’m on the hunt for the perfect pair of board-shorts to go with it. Heck, I would wear something like a 1920’s bathing costume if I could just so I could be more covered-up.) All this is not exactly carefree or fun, but it’s second-nature to me now.
I’ve also never smoked or done any drugs – and was never a “partier” during my school years.
I only drink water (I hate alcohol, and cut coffee, soda, and juice out of my diet about 10 years ago or so). Sure, I might have the tiniest sip now and then of Hub’s diet Coke or Lil Tot’s apple juice, but on the whole most sweet drinks just taste too sweet to me, and soda too fizzy. I guess I’ve just lost the palate for it! (I do drink some green tea or peppermint tea once in awhile for the health benefits, but 98% of the time I’m drinking water.)

I also eat lots of fruit and raw vegetables, stopped using salad dressing like 13 years ago, eat a handful of nuts and 1T – 2T of ground flaxseed every day, and try to choose things that have more health benefits than health risks to put in my body. About 2-3 days a week I’ll only eat and cook vegetarian or vegan meals; I eat red meat rarely, though I do love chicken. (I always joke that I was a vegetarian for 6 years until KFC did me in…because I do have a terrible weakness for the stuff. But I might eat KFC like once every 6 months?? Colonel’s Extra Crispy!)

I only recently started learning a lot about nutrition and how the body works through my subscription to Health Magazine (they are the best – seriously!!) and Parents Magazine, and doing Tony Horton’s diet and exercise programs [Power 90 and P90X] through the years. There was so much I didn’t know about health and nutrition and food until I was in my late 20’s!! What a waste high school Health Class was. (Is anybody with me on this??)
So yes, I LOVE Ruffles potato chips and chocolate cake and fruit pies and peanut butter cookies and butterscotch candies and licorice and Twizzlers and shortbreads and chocolate but I do try to eat those things rarely and barter them for other things in my diet that may have very little health benefits as well.
Like I will eat only a small amount of white rice (this makes me popular with my Japanese in-laws!!) in exchange for eating a small slice of cake for dessert. I may eat an ounce of potato chips but then will forgo my serving of carbs or make my serving of meat smaller at dinner. Though I like fat free milk better, I eat my cereal with soymilk because it’s the same amount of calories with higher protein from a non-animal source, no HGH or other preservatives etc. Stuff like that adds up in the long run, I guess.
I am still trying to get back into my usual workout routine which I had to take time off from while I was sick during the Spring. Until then I was jogging or speed-walking intervals 3x a week, and did another day or two of weight-training and/or yoga or stretching. But after hitting 30 , moving to suburbia, and sitting about the house all day [in front of the computer], the pounds have definitely crept on so I’m no role model in that respect.:-)
I also take a multi-vitamin, extra Vitamin D, and a calcium supplement daily, as well as use a retinol-based serum mixed in with my night cream that has really produced visible results. Plus Oil of Olay products have also really helped the quality and texture of my skin.
Hope that answers your question!
xoxo
Carly
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Jul 27, 2010 | Fashion, From You
On formspring.me a reader asked what my 3 favorite earrings are. Well here they are! (Sorry I deleted the question by mistake when I went to post it to Blogger.:-(
These are usually the three that I reach for regardless of what outfit I’m wearing.
The oversized rhinestone earrings (from Forever21; no longer sold but a very similar pair here) I wear when I want to go crazy over-the-top glam…and they look surprisingly fun paired with an old t-shirt and jeans. Plus, for a really formal event (not like I have many to go to!) they’re perfect with an LBD for some retro glam.
The large hoops are light as a feather and I love the tiny star detail at the back. They’re for when I want to be a little more dressed up but more classic. (bought in Japan)
The small gold hoops are a recent purchase in Tokyo (LaForet Harjuku though I also found them in another store along Takeshita street there) – I really love secure-post small hoops in gold since I don’t have to take them out in the shower and can sleep with them in, and they still look chic and dressed-up with a number of different outfits. I love the subtle studding on the surface. Alas, I found that they have too much nickel in them for my sensitive ears – and the post is a bit too thick, so I’m still debating what to do. After wearing them for 3 days straight I got a massive infection in my right ear that took more than a week to clear up. *sigh* Sorry, maybe that’s a bit TMI!
I also tend not to wear earrings that much, since while my hair is short I wear it covering my ears a lot, and it seems kind of pointless to put in earrings when they can’t be seen anyway…
What earrings do you gravitate to? Hoops, studs, sparklies?
Thanks for your question!
xoxo
Carly
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May 5, 2010 | From You
Thank you for your question!
xoxox
Carly
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Mar 23, 2010 | Fashion
from Formspring.me:
who is your best friend?
Hmmm….that’s a toughie. I’ve been blessed to have a handful of wonderful, dear friends scattered the world over – London, L.A., Tokyo, Brussels, Honolulu, New York, D.C…but I have not lived in the same town as any of them for a couple years now. I also have 2 friends whom I count my closest (and oldest, all the way going back to high school) – we’ve shared so many highs and lows, 15 years…and it’s been a lot. One girl and one guy, the best of both worlds. I don’t know where I would be without either of them.:-)
Thank you for your question!
xoxo
Carly
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Jan 12, 2010 | Life, Media

I’m always on the lookout for a good self-help book…especially when I’m feeling out-of-sorts, lost, confused, and like I’m spinning my wheels. (Happens alot, I assure you.) Ann, a friend of my husband’s, is the sweetest person you could ever meet – a great listener – and a woman in her twenties with an astounding amount of depth and calm. She’s released her first book which she calls “a real conversation about personal and spiritual growth.”
Confusion to Clarity: The Twentysomething’s Guide to Finding Your Calling ($12.95, Amazon.com) empowers twentysomethings to uncover their identity, passion, and purpose… and move forward when they are at a crossroads. Full of true stories, factual research, and thought-provoking exercises, this book is a wonderful gift for any twentysomething (or even thirtysomething!) who is in transition. It’s also a valuable resource for Baby Boomers who want to be the best possible parents, mentors, and employers.
Ann Elizabeth Grace spent years of researching, interviewing Gen Y’ers, and writing about what she has lived and learned in her own struggles to define her path as a twenty-something. She is a compassionate and supportive guide as she suggests exercises and ideas to awaken your thinking and help you realize your goals and find focus. The book is “all about YOU the reader – discovering yourself, identifying what you want, and connecting with others as you turn your dreams into reality, one small step at a time.”
Learn more about the author at her website www.annelizabethgrace.com and check out her blog, which has uplifting articles and stories about being disciplined in your endeavors, finding peace and balance in personal relationships, and exploring your own creative potential. It’s a lovely reminder of many of the things that we take for granted in this hectic, dog-eat-dog world.
Full disclosure: I know it’s a little strange for me to be writing about a book that is unrelated to fashion…or even writing about a book in general. Why? Ann interviewed Hub for the book about his experiences as a twenty-something getting married and having a child – and so the book mentions both him and myself in the chapter entitled “Having Children”!! So, if you see a familiar name in there….um, that’s referring to yours truly. It’s a little strange to see my name in a book – but if our story can help anyone else out there in any way…that would be wonderful! So glad to have had the opportunity to share – and for the record, getting married and having a child in any decade presents its own unique challenges, though I feel there are many more the younger you are given the nature of society and expectations (your own and others’) today. My life choices do provide a certain amount of stability and dependability that I wouldn’t have otherwise – and has created an amazing strength in me I never knew I had. It’s certainly still a trip!
Despite the fact that there’s a little about me in the book, I still found it a helpful resource – one I will turn to repeatedly for self-reflection and guidance. If you have the inclination, please check it out!
Congratulations Ann – here’s to your utmost success!
-Carly J. Cais
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